We used to meet on your parents street
Laugh as your father would step to me
Do you think he'd still play hard? I guess he's not remembering
I was the one to leave
You tried to make it hard to love and need you
The aggressive ways your heart it chose to ache

I think they're all to blame, I think they're all to blame
We could rinse each other clean
Try to make us feel ashamed, try to make us feel ashamed
And I can't help wondering
I think it's all the same, I think it's all the same
Maybe we're right where were supposed to be
Alone not you, not me

Spread you thin you've exhausted me
When's the last time I heard you speak
You're changing more than the falling leaves
I never miss them in the snow and sleet
But spring turns again and they're the first thing I see
Alone not you, not me

I think they're all to blame, I think they're all to blame
We could rinse each other clean
Try to make us feel ashamed, try to make us feel ashamed
And I can't help wondering
I think it's all the same, I think it's all the same
I didn't think of you today
I can't stop myself from wondering

How my heart can shift and rearrange
How I learned to love you all the same
How I learned to grow but not replace
Alone not you, not me